Dear Stranger: I’m Engaged, and We Can’t Stop Thinking About Other Women

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Dear Stranger,

Therefore, I’m involved, appropriate? And now we reside together—just signed a lease that is new reality! For the part that is most, we’re delighted. I am talking about, we now have our moments like everybody else, and yes, I’ve had ideas of making. That’s feet that are just cold right?

Except we keep having ideas about other ladies, also it just generally seems to develop each day. Like women all over me personally, particularly at the job. There’s this girl that basically fucking annoys me—really, actually just fucking annoying—but we can’t stop picturing sex with her. There’s been dreams even! along with other women. Where in fact the intercourse is really so good we break, simply, like, every thing. Nothing beats the intercourse I have actually . . . Ugh. Is marriage in my situation? Must I work on these other urges? Ignore them? Have always been We possibly psychotic? WHAT CAN I DO?


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